I know when you are asked what makes a person charming your answer is that he or she is funny, witty, life of the party, dazzling personality, beautiful or handsome, intelligent. They are special traits but they do not make a charming individual. Even you smile all day long, it doesn’t consider you a real charmer.
But for instance you met someone and pleasantries are exchanged and that person never talks about himself or herself but keeps asking questions about you unknowingly making you feel comfortable. He seems a genuine inquirer concerns of what you are saying. True, there is comfort zone created. Isn’t it that when you are asked, you always give an answer? If you think this is tricky thing to do, yes but it is done by an engaging person. You are regarded with importance and knowing about him gives you power over him. “Knowledge is power,” and always applies.
How would you like listening to an incessant magpie? He or she talks much about adventures, accomplishments and all bravuras granted him. Yes, when you listen intently showing no exasperation and enjoying his narratives. You are charming. When you don’t butt in and talk about your conquests. You are charming. When you don’t disagree about his claims. You are a charming person.
It is a simple gesture but for sure you will be remembered not because you are stunning and full of wit with matching smiles but you made someone very special. That importance given will mark on one’s mind for as long as he remembers.
You might say to yourself, “ah very easy thing to do!” Find out by practice. There are not much people doing this act. Be counted as a delightful person by doing and an example to emulate.
Before I end don’t get me wrong by not mentioning THE other traits of a charming person. They are plenty but my piece hints listing THE MOST SPECIAL TRAIT TO BE CHARMING. And I did it simply for you to grasp the message.
